The Mommy Hood: Last Time

The Mommy Hood: Last Time: "Every year, the day Somerset Creamery opens, rain or shine, snow, sleet, or hail, we go to get an ice cream cone! The first year M..."

Last Time

Every year, the day Somerset Creamery opens, rain or shine, snow, sleet, or hail, we go to get an ice cream cone! The first year My Little Boy was a few weeks shy of his first birthday. He really should not have been eating ice cream but I figured a little would be ok...turned out I was right! He loved it, and a tradition was made. We have gone back every year...we look forward to it for weeks and  it's something that we do together, just the tow of us. We are getting ready to go today, and I'm realizing this is the last year it will  be just me and him. Next year his little sister will be with us. Of course I can't wait to meet my Baby Girl..to hold and love her. But,this is a bittersweet time for me, My Little boy is growing up, about to be a big brother and our lives will forever be different. He is going to need to share our attention and love. I worry that he will feel pushed aside. I worry that I will have a hard time dividing my attention between the two of them. I'm sure this is how even mom feels before she gives birth to another baby...But, I didn't anticipate feeling this way. I'm going to do my best to savor these last few months and give him every ounce of attention and love that I can. So, off  we go to enjoy our ice cream cones and hopefully make some happy memories together!!

The Mommy Hood: Change

The Mommy Hood: Change: "Change is a funny thing. It can be welcomed or fought. It can be exciting or terrifying, sometimes both! You can pray for it for years, then..."

Change

Change is a funny thing. It can be welcomed or fought. It can be exciting or terrifying, sometimes both! You can pray for it for years, then not be ready for it when it happens. Sometimes, when the change is small you may not see it right away, other times it is so quick it can knock the wind out of you.

My life has dramatically changed over the last few years, I have had to make painfully hard decisions. I had to hope and pray that I was doing the right thing for my family...I had to have faith..that life would change again, this time for the better... and you know what? It did!!!!

Today, I am head over heels in love with my best friend! I have a beautiful little boy who lights up my world, and soon, we will welcome our little girl! I know our lives are going to change again and again....and not all of it will be easy!  I have faith though, that no matter what happens I will always have the love of my family...and knowing that makes "change" exciting and not quite so scary!

The Mommy Hood: I go Back!

The Mommy Hood: I go Back!: "Ever have days that bring you back to a different time? Well, the first warmish day of the year brings me back to a much simpler, carefree t..."

I go Back!

Ever have days that bring you back to a different time? Well, the first warmish day of the year brings me back to a much simpler, carefree time. I see a White Pontiac sun fire, two blondes in the front seat...windows down with the heat on, Britney Spears blasting on the radio! They are cruising around having a blast!

SO much has changed...

The Mommy Hood: It's a Healthy Baby!

The Mommy Hood: It's a Healthy Baby!: "I had the big 20 week ultrasound yesterday, everything looks great! We found out we are having a girl. We are overjoyed to have one of each,..."

It's a Healthy Baby!

I had the big 20 week ultrasound yesterday, everything looks great! We found out we are having a girl. We are overjoyed to have one of each, and thrilled beyond belief that everything looks good so far :) I'm was so excited to start shopping for the Baby Girl that I could not sleep last night. Instead, I was at the computer at 3 am looking for matching mommy and me outfits baby girl clothes.

My Little Boy is excited, but was wishing for a brother. When we all found out it was a girl he did smile but was mildly dissapointed. I think the idea that we are going to have a new baby really hit him yesterday, as he was noticeable more huggy and kissy which was great!!!!!! I made sure to reassure him that he was still our baby, and so, so special to both myself, and Mr. Fun. 

I can't wait to meet my Baby Girl (who still has not been named) I feel like our family is soon to be complete. I am so happy :)

The Mommy Hood: Big Day!

The Mommy Hood: Big Day!: "Today is the big day! We are hopefully going to find out if this little Bambino is a boy or a girl! I'm so excited! I'll let you know what w..."

Big Day!

Today is the big day! We are hopefully going to find out if this little Bambino is a boy or a girl! I'm so excited! I'll let you know what we find out. Mr. Fun is thinking girl, but I have a very strong feeling it's a boy, we shall see. Either way I'm happy, Just praying for healthy :)

The Mommy Hood: Proud Mommy!

The Mommy Hood: Proud Mommy!: "I very rarely brag about my Little Boy...sure I talk about what a great kid he is and how much I love him, but to talk about all t..."

Proud Mommy!

I very rarely brag about my Little Boy...sure I talk about what a great kid he is and how much I love him, but to talk about all the things he excels at...that's not my style. It's not that I don't want to share his achievements, I just don't want to put any pressure on him. We celebrate everything in our house, big and small. We tell him how proud we are of everything he dose. We stress the importance of trying your best and having fun! I  would never want him to think that he had to be number one, or the very best to make us proud! To be honest, I'm proud and happy the minute he gets out of bed in the morning. Another reason I don't brag is because I would never want to make other parents or other children feel bad. Growing up, when it came to academics, I was "other children." I was just an average Joe, and that's just fine!  

However, since this is my blog, and not directed at anyone, I'm going to brag away...

My Little boy is smart!!!! He came home with his first report card and it was perfect!!!! All M's, and in Pe-K, that's as good as it gets!  Even better then that, my shy guy participates in class, has great manners, and is seen as bright!!!! Aside from being a good student, he is very well behaved! I can take him out anywhere, he listens, is respectful and really appreciates all the fun things we do with him. Now, don't get me wrong he is still a kid, and no child behaves all the time and nobody is perfect. He is very sensitive, and his feelings are hurt very easily. (I wonder who he get this from) And, He can throw a fit with the best of em!!!!

Aside from intelligence and wonderful manners, he is a great athlete! He is quick like his daddy and picks up sports very easily! He is so full of energy and life, I love to watch him play!

All of these things are great, but I am most proud of his kind heart. He is just the sweetest kid. He hates to see someone sad, he is one of those, you cry I cry kind of people. If you are sad or upset he will wrap you up in a big hug. He is the most empathetic person I know. There are times I wish he was not so sensitive, because I hate to see him hurting, but that is his best quality, one that will make him loved by everyone that gets to know him. So, I guess a broken heart or two is going to come with the territory!

  He really is a great kid!!!  Sorry if I sound like a bragger, but as my Dad would say, "It's not brag, just fact!" I say this a lot, but I'm a lucky Mommy!!!!!!

To my Little Bambino, no matter what your strengths or weaknesses are, I will still wake up every morning and my heart will burst with pride and love!

The Mommy Hood: Blah Blah

The Mommy Hood: Blah Blah: "This Mommy is having a blah day! That ever happen to you? Nothing is really wrong, just a cold the wont go away, a Little boy who also has a..."

Blah Blah

This Mommy is having a blah day! That ever happen to you? Nothing is really wrong, just a cold the wont go away, a Little boy who also has a cold, (neither of us are sleeping well) and pregnancy hormones making me crazy  a bit irritable! Today, My Little boy stayed home from school due to a slight fever and his lack of sleep. We also have a houseful of children. Did I ever mention that I have a home daycare a few days a week?  I Love the kiddies, but wouldn't mind  staying  in my pjs all day and snuggling on the couch with MY Little Boy! To top it all off we are getting more snow tonight, and I'm  sick of it! Plus, it's Wednesday...nothing good on tv tonight. I think I need to chalk this day as a loss and hope to wake up on the right side of the bed tomorrow!  I'm off to eat large quantities of chocolate play with the children!

The Mommy Hood: I Love My Family!

The Mommy Hood: I Love About My Family!: "The Mommy Hood family had another really great weekend! We didn't do anything exciting, just spent a lot of time to..."

I Love About My Family!

The Mommy Hood family had another really great weekend! We didn't do anything exciting, just spent a lot of time together:) my only complaint is that My Little Boy and myself are sick, just colds, nothing too serious. I have been in such a great mood lately we all know this won't last. I figured now is a good time to show some appreciation to the men in my life. Tonight, I'm going to cook their favorites. Chicken and rice for Mr. Fun, steak and carrots for My Little boy. Yup Two different meals.

I am incredibly lucky to have the most amazing man, and Little boy. They truly make me very happy and I don't know what I would do without them?

 I am showered with hug and kisses from both of my boys! Mr. Fun tells me I'm still skinny and pretty,even though I have a puffy face and a huge belly. He is great about letting me rest when I need it, he is very helpful! To top it all off My Little boy gave my belly a big hug last night and said."I love you baby" He is the sweetest thing, and I could not ask for more! Let's just say, these days I'm a woman in love!

My Little Boy's first broken heart

Today is a sad day in the Mommy Hood house. Our very good friends,  friends who are family to us have moved. To be clear, they have not moved across the country or even out of the state, they are just a few towns over.  I am very happy for them because, this is truly the best thing for their family.  I have explained over and over that we will still see plenty of the Trouts. This however, is not enough for my Little Boy. He wants to still be able to walk to his house. He is  really going to miss Little Trout. This past weekend has been hard, he knows that when I drop him off to school, Little Trout will not be there. he has cried many time over this.. I am close to tears myself because I hate to see My Little man sad, and also, I'm going to really miss Mama Trout as well! Wish us luck at drop off.

Happy Days!

Happy Monday,
I hope everyone had a fabulous weekend! We sure did! I had the best day yesterday with My Little Boy, we went to Dave and Busters, hit up the mall, grabbed some ice cream, and really had a blast. He was wonderful all day! I really  love spending time the little angel, he is the best boy in the world.(I say that a lot huh?) I do not have one complaint today,and that doesn't happen every day, now does it? Mr. Fun has the day off, so it's a play day:)

Can't relate?

We had a snow day yesterday! It was great!!!! MR. Fun was home, and we spent the day playing outside, and relaxing inside. My Little Boy and I made hot chocolate and cupcakes. It really was a great day! We were all hoping to get another day off today. Sadly, that didn't happen. So, it's off to school and work we go. When I went on FB this morning I saw so many posts from people annoyed about being stuck home with their children?????  I don't understand how some people see their children as a nuisance? I love spending time with mine, and would not trade it for the word. If you don't enjoy children in general, why did you have them?

Tuesday, Tuesday

I woke up early today, really hoping to get some house work accomplished. The Little Bambino However, had other ideas! Instead of doing anything productive, I spent the morning standing in the bathroom, desperately trying not to be sick. Who said morning sickness only lasts the first trimester? Let me tell you, I'm well into the second...It's still here!!!!!!

I need to go wake My Little Boy up for school. Pre-School drop off has not gone well in the last few weeks. My Little boy has been clingy lately. There is a lot of change going on in his life, and let's just say he is NOT embracing it. His best buddy is moving:(  And even though he says he is excited, I think the Little Bambino in my expanding belly has thrown him for a loop. So, I am hoping to spend some QT with him this morning, fingers crossed, that will help?

Have a wonderful day! xo

Let's get started

So.... I have been wanted to start a blog for awhile now, but never really knew where to begin? I'm going to start at the beginning, the beginning of the Mommy Hood.

It all started about 4 1/2 years ago on a beautiful sunny day. April 10, 2006 to be exact. My Little Boy was born that day. From the moment I laid eyes on him I was in love. He came out all purple and blue(the cord had been tightly wound around his little neck) but to me, he was the most beautiful baby to ever exist. A few moments later he did pink up and then, he was the most beautiful baby that ANYONE had ever seen.  I know, I know, all mothers think that their baby is the most beautiful but trust me, mine was!

I had a ton, and I do mean a ton of experience with babies and children. I had been a partial live in nanny for over 5 years. So I would have no problems when it came to my own baby right? Wrong! This was different! This baby was MINE, well, mine and Mr Fun's. This was scary and new, I was in a constant state of panic. Was he OK? Was I a good enough mother? What if he got sick? What if I got sick? Who would care for him? So yes, even though this should have been a piece of cake it was hard and I was scared. But this phase didn't last forever. Soon I realized that I was pretty good at the whole Mommy thing. The only problem with this was that I felt I was the only one capable of talking care of my Little Boy. Sorry Mr Fun,  but back off, this is Mothers work. SO, I did it all myself, the nighttime feedings(I was breastfeeding so what could anyone else do anyway?) the diaper changes, the clothing changes, all the rocking, and the holding! When it came to my Little Boy I was a bit of a control freak! I was exhausted! All you new Mommies out there, take help, and let the dads in on the action! I have gotten slightly better over the years! OK, OK, I'm  not much better, but that Little Boy is still my baby!

Now, My sweet Little Boy is almost 5!!!!!!!! I can't believe it?! Where did the time go? I must say that Mr. Fun and I have done a great job! My Little Boy is sweet and compassionate and very, very funny (I think he gets that from me )!!!
Almost 5 is a hard, but wonderful age for  Mommies, well this Mommy anyway! I kinda take the back seat to, who else, Mr Fun!!!! Don't  get me wrong My Little Boy loves me! when he is not feeling well, or is hurt it's Mommy that he wants.  I think it makes it so difficult for me,  because for the first 3 years of his life it was Mommy, Mommy, Mommy! Only I could put him to sleep, only I could read him books, only I could kiss his ouchies! But now,  it's Mr fun! Mr. Fun walks in the door and My Little boy squeals with delight, It's Daddy Time! I can't really blame him, Mr . Fun is pretty great! He is always up for playing, even after he has worked all day! He has the patience I only wish I had. He is sweet, and loving to his Little Boy, and when I'm not jealous of the bond he and our Little Boy share, I'm falling more in love with him! I will admit there are times when I wish I could be Miss Fun and he could be, as I am sometimes called, a Meanie. I am sometime portrayed as the bad guy. I'm the one who is always telling  My Little Boy, to brush his teeth, eat his food, stop jumping off the couch, go to bed, Turn off the TV, No More DS, Take your vitamins etc etc... But you Know what? It is what it is! I Love Mr. Fun and Our Little Boy, and I can't wait to add to our growing family with the the Little Bambino growing inside me!
The Mommy Hood isn't always easy but I'm so glad to be a part of it!